The Child Centered Divorce

Academy

Protect Your Kids From Emotional Damage, Redefine Your Relationship with Your Ex, and Save Thousands in Legal Fees

Divorce is messy. 
Your children's future doesn't need to be.

The long-term mental health of your kids is resting on how you handle the period of time during and after your divorce. 

Don't leave it up to chance. Get expert advice for every step of the process. 
 

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THE CHILD CENTERED DIVORCE ACADEMY

Protect Your Kids From Emotional Damage, Redefine Your Relationship with Your Ex, and Save Thousands on Legal Fees

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You can't underestimate the negative toll that 
divorce can take on your children.

Studies have shown that children of divorced parents are more likely to:
  • ​Struggle at school and on standardized tests
  • ​Develop problems with sleeping
  • ​Have difficulty in romantic relationships
  • ​Feel lonely
  • Experience health and social problems
  • ​Engage in high-risk behaviors in an effort to gain attention
  • Struggle in relationships with their parents, siblings, and friends
  • ​Get divorced themselves  
I know that you want to protect your children from these outcomes more than anything. But it’s so easy to become overwhelmed with lawyers, finances, schedules, and the minutiae of it all that many parents never even think about creating systems and boundaries that will keep their kids from unnecessary suffering. 

I’ve coached literally thousands of families through the process of creating a “new normal” -- and their success is undeniable. Your children are not destined for a lifetime of bad grades, bad relationships, and bad decisions. 

There is hope...

Your kids can be happier and healthier in
a positive post-divorce environment than
they were in a toxic marriage. 

This is why I created The Child Centered Divorce Academy. A live, interactive, and on-demand coaching system designed to help parents to protect their children from the long-term consequences of divorce. 

Parents - Your children are going through the divorce as well.

It is up to you to do everything possible to shield them from the emotional fallout. If you don't protect them, it is possible no one else will. 

  • Protect Your Kids: Divorce may be the best thing for your dysfunctional marriage, but you can mitigate the damage to your children by learning the tactics and strategies that lead to a healthy post-divorce environment where your children can not only survive but thrive. 
  • Save On Legal Fees: Minimize the number of times you need to go to court, or consult with your lawyer, literally saving you tens of thousands of dollars. 
  • Redefine The Relationship With Your Ex: It's necessary to create a new, working-relationship with your ex-spouse to maximize communication while minimizing conflict and dysfunction.

WHAT IS 
The Child Centered Divorce Academy

An interactive and on-demand coaching system designed to help parents to protect their children from the long-term consequences that divorce can bring. 

  • On-Demand Video Training: Dr. Ellis has organized your "new-normal" into 11-video trainings available 24/7. We've also included the written transcripts, and audio version.
  • Step-by-Step Workbook: Key information and concrete action steps to help you apply what you learn
  • Resource Vault: Guides, interviews, and answers for every obstacle you'll face in the divorce process
  • Access to All CCDJ Mini-Courses: Take deep dives into the most important topics: Co-Parenting With a Narcissist, Allies not Enemies With Your Ex, and Rise Above Your Divorce-Related Emotions
  • Messenger/Email Support: Get timely support and guidance on your questions from our staff
  • Protect Your Kids: Divorce may be the best thing for your dysfunctional marriage, but you can mitigate the damage to your children by learning the tactics and strategies that lead to a healthy post-divorce environment where your children can not only survive but thrive. 
  • Save On Legal Fees: Minimize the number of times you need to go to court, or consult with your lawyer, literally saving you tens of thousands of dollars. 
  • Redefine The Relationship With Your Ex: It's necessary to create a new, working-relationship with your ex-spouse to maximize communication while minimizing conflict and dysfunction.

4 FOCUSES

We focus on high-level strategy that will have an immediate impact on your life and the lives of your children. You will learn everything necessary to achieve your desired results.

11 MODULES

 There are three major relationships in a divorce: with yourself, with your ex, and with you children. The modules teach a comprehensive system for improving each of them.

RESOURCES

You will be equipped with a suite of tools and resources that will help you do your learning outside your attorney's office and always have the answers to your children's questions

ALL ACCESS PASS

THE 30-DAY DIVORCE TRIAGE

with Dr. Erica Ellis

Protect Your Kids From Emotional Damage, Save Thousands on Legal Fees, and Redefine The Relationship with Your Ex

DISCOVER WHAT'S INSIDE 
THE CHILD CENTERED DIVORCE ACADEMY
 The Academy is designed to give you cutting-edge strategies on how to protect your children from the painful and long-term consequences divorce often brings.
  • It Only Takes One
    It's completely possible to create a healthy post-divorce without waiting for your ex to make child-centered decisions. The power is in your hands!
      • Emotion Management
        Divorce brings up many difficult emotions. Learning to effectively manage them is crucial to being the present and supportive parent you want to be.
        • A New Co-Parenting Framework
          You and your ex-spouse will always be connected through your children. The ability to create a new type of relationship with your ex is the key to a conflict-free future. 
        • The "Out-Of-Court" Solution
          Going to court is both financially and emotionally costly. With the right strategy, you can resolve most of your issues outside of the courtroom.
          • Coping Mechanisms for Kids
            Every child will deal with the challenges of divorce differently. Creating effective coping strategies is one of your most important parental responsibilities.
            •  Avoiding Parenting Mistakes
              The Bill of Rights for Children of Divorce will help you commit to parenting best-practices and keep your children out of the middle of your conflicts. 

              Meet Your Coach-
              Dr. Erica Ellis

              Dr. Erica Ellis is a licensed psychologist, best-selling author, and a leading global expert on child centered divorce. After working with over 1,000 divorcing families over the past 30 years, she has discovered the crucial steps that every parent must take to protect their children and create a healthy future for their entire family. 

              Dr. Ellis is a child of divorce herself and is deeply passionate about helping divorcing parents avoid the mistakes her parents and so many others have made. She created Child Centered Divorce Journey because she was heartbroken by the number of children who walked into her office who were badly damaged by their parents’ divorce. It is her goal to prevent this pain before it ever happens

              With her unique approach to divorce, Dr. Ellis has helped countless families navigate the divorce process in a way that reduces conflict, stress, and uncertainty, and sets the children up for a lifetime of healthy relationships, emotional stability, and personal success - while saving a ton of money in the process. 
              As Featured In:

              FOCUS #1

              How to Effectively Co-Parent

               (even in a high conflict divorce) 

              You alone have the power and responsibility to protect your kids from divorce related damage. You can’t just sit around and wait for your ex to change.

              REDEFINE THE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR EX-SPOUSE

              The only thing harder than being married to a narcissist, or someone who acted like one during the divorce, is trying to co-parent with one. 

              You don’t have to be best friends with your ex, you don’t even have to be friends. But you do need to be business partners focused on the shared venture of raising your children.

              Principles Taught:
              • The greatest predictor of how a child will cope with divorce is the amount of conflict they witness between their parents.
              • Reframe your relationship as a business partnership in the joint venture of raising your children.
              • Focus on the one thing that will always connect you with your ex-spouse: your shared love for your children. 

              Lesson One

              The greatest predictor of how a child will cope with divorce is the amount of conflict they witness between their parents 

              Lesson Two

              Reframe your relationship as a business partnership in the joint venture of raising your children

              Lesson Three

              Focus on the one thing that will always connect you with your ex-spouse: your shared love for your children 

              FOCUS #2

              How to Save Thousands of Dollars in Legal Fees

              The very last thing you want for your kids, your wallet, or your stress-level is to be going to court to resolve every small disagreement.

              MUCH OF THE DIVORCE PROCESS CAN BE HANDLED OUTSIDE OF THE COURTROOM

              One of the biggest myths about the divorce process is that you need to go to court and consult your attorney for everything. 

              Believe it or not, much of the divorce process can be handled outside of court. Inside the Academy, I’ll show you exactly what you can do to keep from having to consult your lawyer or go to court so often -- saving you literally tens of thousands of dollars on legal fees and court costs. 

              Principles Taught:
              • Put your family’s emotional/financial well-being above your desire to destroy your ex in court.
              • Understand the fundamental connection between saving money in legal fees and a child centered approach to divorce.
              • Learn strategies to resolve post-divorce disputes out of court.

              Lesson One

              Put your family’s emotional/financial well-being above your desire to destroy your ex in court

              Lesson Two

              Understand the fundamental connection between saving money in legal fees and a child centered approach to divorce

              Lesson Three

              Learn strategies to resolve post-divorce disputes out of court


              FOCUS #3

              How to Protect Your Kids

              Tactics that lead to a healthy post-divorce environment that will help your kids thrive even in the midst of difficult circumstances.

              Empower yourself to 
              create a healthy new normal

              Watching your child suffer is one of the most painful parts of going through a divorce. Inside the Academy I will introduce you to my 7-Step PROTECT system that will give you step-by-step guidance and the confidence that everything is going to be alright. 
              • Embrace your power to protect your children, even if you are doing it alone.
              • Understand and commit to adhering to the Bill of Right for Children of Divorce.
              • Help your children create strategic coping mechanisms based on where they are in their development.

              Lesson One

              Embrace your power to protect your children, even if you are doing it alone

              Lesson Two

              Understand and commit to adhering to the Bill of Right for Children of Divorce

              Lesson Three

              Help your children create strategic coping mechanisms based on where they are in their development 

              FOCUS #4

              How to Be the Parent Your Child Needs

              When parents resource themselves with a proven system that protects their kids, the guilt of going through a divorce is greatly diminished. 

              RISE ABOVE YOUR PAINFUL EMOTIONS

              Unmanaged parental emotions are one the greatest threats to a child’s mental health. While painful feelings are an entirely normal part of any divorce, if not effectively dealt with, they have the potential to derail not only the divorce process, but also your children’s lives. You must take the necessary steps to work through these emotions and rise above them for the sake of your children.
              • Acknowledge the difficult emotions you are facing and assess them on a deeper level.
              • Accept your divorce and your role in your marriage ending.
              • Commit to prioritizing your own emotional health so that you can show up fully for your kids.

              Lesson One

              Acknowledge the difficult emotions you are facing and assess them on a deeper level

              Lesson Two

              Accept your divorce and your role in your marriage ending 

              Lesson Three

              Commit to prioritizing your own emotional health so that you can show up fully for your kids

              WHAT RESULTS CAN YOU EXPECT AFTER COMPLETING
              THE ACADEMY?

              • Empowerment that you alone have the power to protect your kids
              • Reduced stress and an ability to better manage your difficult emotions
              • A redefined relationship with your co-parent and the tools to resolve future conflicts
              • ​Guilt-free confidence that you are doing everything possible to protect your children
              • ​Thousands of dollars in saved legal and therapy bills
              • ​Children who trust that at least one parent is always looking out for their best interest

              HERE'S EVERYTHING YOU GET INSIDE OF THE ACADEMY

              The Academy Core Curriculum

              Dr. Ellis delivers her 7-step system in 11 on-demand trainings you can access 24/7/365 for life. We've also included the written transcripts, and audio version.

              The Academy Action Plan Workbook

              A complete workbook that shows you how to apply the teachings of the Academy to your unique situation. It gives you concrete action steps to get long-lasting results.

              CCDJ Resource Vault

              Guides, interviews, and answers for every obstacle you'll face in the divorce process

              Access to all CCDJ Mini-Courses

              Take deep dives into the most important topics: Co-Parenting With a Narcissist, Allies not Enemies With Your Ex, and Rise Above Your Divorce-Related Emotions

              Messenger/Email Support

              Get timely support and guidance on your questions from our staff

              Only $997

              or 3-payments of $397

              CHECKOUT WHAT OTHER FAMILIES ARE SAYING ABOUT DR. ELLIS

               Dr. Ellis has coached literally thousands of families through the process of creating a “new normal” -- and their success is undeniable.

              "Erica was great at bringing the two sides together and challenging you to think differently…and keeping the family and kids at the forefront of the process.”

              Dave R.

              "Erica was able to very quickly assess the situation and cut through a lot of the difficult emotions that my son’s father and I both had that were going to hinder the negotiation process or slow us down."

              Saima A.

              "Erica is very skilled at ensuring people take the focus from whatever dispute has got them here to keeping them on track to understanding that they still have a job to do as co-parents." 

              Kelly C. Esq

              TOTAL VALUE: $4,491

              Today's Price: $997

              or 3-payments of $397

              You have questions? We have answers.

              Many people going through divorce have questions about the program. Here are a few of the most frequently asked... 

              My (ex) spouse has no interest in doing any of this with me. Can I still benefit from doing it alone?
              Absolutely! One is definitely better than none. Just one of you learning how to protect your kids will go a long way toward sparing them the emotional damage that divorce has the potential to cause. 


              My (ex) spouse is a narcissist who has no capacity to co-parent. How will this training help me?
              You will learn strategies to co-parent in a high-conflict divorce, ways of managing your painful emotions, and how to deal with your children’s emotional struggles. All of that will go a long way toward helping your kids get through this difficult time as unscathed as possible. 
              This seems like it will involve a lot of time over the course of a month. What if I can’t carve out that amount of time each day to get through the material?
              We wanted to provide you with all of the information you need to manage the emotional challenges of your divorce in as short a time as possible. However, if you want to go through the modules at a slower pace that is certainly your option. 
              I’m already shelling out a lot of money on attorney fees. How can I possibly justify spending more money right now on this training?
              Simply put, your children’s mental health is resting upon how you navigate your way through the divorce process and beyond. All of the skills and strategies that you learn in this training might be the greatest gift you ever give them! And, you will be able to do a great deal of your learning about the divorce process and all of the emotional aspects of it OUTSIDE of your attorney’s office which will save you thousands of dollars in legal fees. 

              You have questions? We have answers.

              Many people going through divorce have questions about the program. Here are a few of the most frequently asked...

              My (ex) spouse has no interest in doing any of this with me. Can I still benefit from doing it alone?
              Absolutely! One is definitely better than none. Just one of you learning how to protect your kids will go a long way toward sparing them the emotional damage that divorce has the potential to cause. 


              My (ex) spouse is a narcissist who has no capacity to co-parent. How will this training help me?
              You will learn strategies to co-parent in a high-conflict divorce, ways of managing your painful emotions, and how to deal with your children’s emotional struggles. All of that will go a long way toward helping your kids get through this difficult time as unscathed as possible. 
              This seems like it will involve a lot of time over the course of a month. What if I can’t carve out that amount of time each day to get through the material?
              We wanted to provide you with all of the information you need to manage the emotional challenges of your divorce in as short a time as possible. However, if you want to go through the modules at a slower pace that is certainly your option. 
              I’m already shelling out a lot of money on attorney fees. How can I possibly justify spending more money right now on this training?
              Simply put, your children’s mental health is resting upon how you navigate your way through the divorce process and beyond. All of the skills and strategies that you learn in this training might be the greatest gift you ever give them! And, you will be able to do a great deal of your learning about the divorce process and all of the emotional aspects of it OUTSIDE of your attorney’s office which will save you thousands of dollars in legal fees. 

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